Corporate Stupidity Files: Infinity War

This story is an example of how companies act against their own interests by sacrificing themselves on the altar of gender ideology.

Two years ago, John Lewis set up a Pride in Partnership photography exhibition at its Oxford Street store in London. It also published a staff magazine produced by the partnership’s LGBTQIA+ network. Both were timed to coincide with LGBT History Month, previously known as February. Identity magazine promoted Mermaids and the use of breast-binders. The photography exhibition featured two members of staff in fetish gear.

Facing a backlash, John Lewis distanced itself from the magazine, saying it didn’t “constitute a corporate position on the issues covered”. It also closed the exhibition early, “for the safety and protection” of its staff.

On 17 Feb 2024, a twitter account run by a gender critical woman calling herself Alice Harper GC had a little laugh at the debacle, posting:

“I used to work with the John Lewis comms director, and know how badly he reacts to criticism. Hope he’s having a great time with the blowback from their stupid ‘look at all the pervs we employ!’ campaign 🤣”

Someone at John Lewis took exception to Alice Harper’s tweet, and set about tracking her down. The vindictive sleuth soon discovered Alice’s real identity – let’s call her Katie – and where she worked.

Katie had moved on from working with the John Lewis comms director, and in 2022 was employed by a large, multinational organisation. Katie inherited a failing department, but within two years she had sorted things out and her team was a beacon of profitability.

On 19 Feb 2024, the John Lewis sleuth emailed Katie’s firm, alerting them “to an employee of yours targeting people on social media with anti-trans rhetoric. As a company that promotes inclusion and works with Stonewall, I thought you should know.” He added: “Her name is [Katie]. She uses an alias of AliceHarperGC on social but I could identify her so l imagine others can.”

Witch Hunt Initiated

Katie was quickly placed under investigation for alleged “Gross Misconduct due to Misuse of Social Media networks”. In early April 2024, without warning, Katie was invited by HR to an “informal” meeting. Her boss was present. During the meeting, Katie admitted she had control of the AliceHarperGC account. Katie said her anonymous account had never mentioned or linked to her Large Multinational employer. Katie also argued that making the connection between her and the AliceHarperGC account would require both inside knowledge and “extensive stalking”.

According to the minutes of the interview, the HR rep asked Katie: “Do you understand that [Large Multinational] is an inclusive employer?”
Katie replied: “I would like to understand what is the problem here… there have been multiple HR court cases which demonstrate [my views] are based on reality and [should be] respected within a democratic society. If you want to make a big stink it is your prerogative. It is not defamatory and non-inclusive [to speak up] in defence of women’s rights.”

After seven more weeks, Katie’s employer produced the fruits of their investigation. Without really explaining how anyone without insider knowledge could identify AliceHarperGC as her alias, the Large Multinational found Katie guilty of Gross Misconduct. It said her offending tweet “ascribes the status of ‘pervert’ to an entire group of people”.

The investigator sternly noted that “gender, gender transition and gender expression are considered Protected Characteristics in the Company’s Equality and Diversity policy” and any transgression of this policy “may result in summary dismissal.”

By admitting AliceHarperGC was her account, Katie had admitted writing a tweet which the Large Multinational considered discriminatory. The report concluded that “further Formal action” against Katie was “warranted”. Katie was informed she had no right of appeal against this conclusion and that her next meeting would be a disciplinary hearing.

What Katie Did Next

Somewhat hacked off, Katie called in the lawyers. On their advice, she sent in a response to the findings against her.

Katie addressed her offending tweet, calling it: “an expression of amusement that a former boss was having an uncomfortable day at work. The only negative comment towards [the complainant] is an implication that he reacts badly to criticism. Given that his reaction to this was to try and get me fired from my job, I consider this implication to be factually supported, and is in line with my previous experience of working with him.”

Katie turned to the word ‘pervs’ in her tweet, which her employer said “ascribes the status of ‘pervert’ to an entire group of people”, and was therefore discriminatory.

Katie wrote: “It is entirely untrue that I ascribe that status to an entire group of people, unless that group is ‘kinksters’. It appears that the investigation did not look into the context of the conversations on Twitter that day around the John Lewis campaign, and is instead relying on the interpretations provided by [the complainant] or the presuppositions of the investigators. The campaign materials in question featured two men (one trans-identifying, one not) wearing kink outfits and holding sex toys… One of the men was dressed in a bondage harness, with additional accessories that made it clear he was an advocate of ‘pup play’, a fetish in which participants dress/act as dogs. The other, Ruby, was dressed in what appeared to be a PVC dress and was holding a whip. It had emerged during the day that Ruby had publicly posted other photos of himself dressed in similar outfits, including a red PVC nurse’s uniform, carrying out various acts in front of the camera including wearing a gag with a dildo inserted, and flashing his crotch at the mirror while covered in (I presume) whipped cream. I have these pictures available as evidence, but will not be sending them as they are objectively disgusting and would certainly be a breach of other company policies if emailed.”

Katie told her employer: “I strongly oppose the normalisation of kink, and consider it entirely accurate to describe as ‘pervs’ these two men who would happily display their sexual activities to their colleagues in this way. I do not see how objecting to this behaviour would bring [Large Multinational] into disrepute, other than by wilful misinterpretation of my words.”

And then she went on holiday.

Katie’s lawyers also approached the Large Multinational, mentioning (amongst a number of legal points) that “no margin of appreciation has been afforded to our client’s gender critical views. The contemporaneous concerns and decision-making process have been principally predicated on the view that the beliefs/views expressed were unacceptable, rather than on the basis of an acknowledgement that [Katie] was entitled to her beliefs and the manifestation of them.”

When Katie returned from holiday, she found the disciplinary process against her had mysteriously melted away.

She got out of the company as soon as she could, with a suitable exit package. Several months after she left, a former colleague begged Katie to come back. Everything had deteriorated in her absence to the extent her department was once more, failing. Katie politely declined.


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11 responses to “Corporate Stupidity Files: Infinity War”

  1. Mrs Rosie Brocklehurst avatar
    Mrs Rosie Brocklehurst

    Brilliant outcome. As a fairly skilled Comms person myself I would love to meet ‘Katie’ and congratulate her. I would also love to know who the multinational was and who the Comms person at John Lewis was. What a twat.

  2. Lizzie Gillanders avatar
    Lizzie Gillanders

    Brilliant “Katie”, an NW for championing her. I used to be worried about career suicide posting articles like this on LinkedIn, but increasingly I don’t want to ever be employed by gender cult subscribers. I wonder if employers are maybe even scouring LinkedIn in looking for bright, creative critical thinkers like “Katie”, instead of herd mentality types who go along with gender nonsense.

  3. Anonymous for a reason avatar
    Anonymous for a reason

    JL’s answer to all feminist criticism is ‘be kind’ followed by ‘shut the door behind you’.

  4. The multinational was behaving like a major bully and either deliberately or naively getting the law wrong. It hoped Katie would be intimidated and crawl off and let them get away with it. Huge respect to her for punching back and not taking their outrageous behaviour. She could have sued for destroying her mental health, as I assume it was extremely stressful; it would have been for me. It’s incredible how many big companies are still getting themselves into hot water around protecting and enabling pervy men, but then given the quality of HR these days I am actually not surprised.

  5. I wish you would publish Katie’s name so I could publicly congratulate her and buy her a drink. 👏 👏 👏

  6. Charlotte R avatar

    Kudos to ‘Katie’ in standing up to this. Hope she got a big payout when she left and I hope her former employers find out the hard way that DEI is wholly destructive.

    I wrote to John Lewis to complain about this at the time, needless to say I didn’t get a reply. However, I did take a printed version of the email to hand to my local Waitrose store manager along with a couple of other WRN members and we explained why we objected so strongly. He didn’t say much but heard us out. Since then the store has had no Pride bunting, signs or celebrations. The only nod to the holy month of Pride has been a few overpriced tote bags on sale. Here is the email I sent to JLP’s head office. I’ve taken out references to my local store location as I don’t want to attract the wrong sort of attention for them.

    Email sent Feb 2024
    For Attention of James Bailey and Lisa Cherry

    Dear James and Lisa

    I visited my local Waitrose store today to voice my concerns over the recent social media furore created by the JLP Identity Project and the Identity magazine which you issued to partners. I love Waitrose, shop there regularly and probably spend between £3-4k per year in Waitrose and John Lewis. I doubt very much the local store partners had any involvement in this but I also know that by continuing to spend my money there, I am indirectly supporting JLP’s overall stance. I really like shopping in my local Waitrose. The store is clean, well stocked, well managed, the partners are mostly helpful and polite. That is what I want from JLP partners. I am glad JLP supports a diverse workforce but as a customer, I want Waitrose staff to understand the products they are selling, to practice food hygiene and to be well trained in customer service. I do not care who they have sex with, what they wear whilst doing it or what inner turmoil they might be feeling around their identity or sexuality.

    My concerns have been raised elsewhere but for clarity, these are the issues I strongly object to. From the Identity Project:

    Tristan Coleman. Was it really appropriate to show a nursery advisor wearing a bondage harness etc and a T-shirt indicating a ‘pup’ fetish? No biggie but I really don’t need to know what kind of kink Tristan is into and it feels even more inappropriate for a nursery adviser.

    Sean McCleod – wearing a T-shirt saying ‘trans rights are human rights.’ Who could disagree with that? Except it seems Sean doesn’t afford the same humanity to women who are fighting to retain our single sex spaces such as toilets, changing rooms, hospital wards, prisons, refuges, rape crisis centres – women known perjoratively as ‘terfs.’ Sean says ‘F**k the terfs.’ Sean’s tweet caused some bad publicity for the Lib Dems at the time so it’s unlikely a quick search on his name wouldn’t have picked this up. I fully accept Sean has a right to his beliefs but I’d like my supermarket to show some respect to those of us who do not share them. And again, I couldn’t care less about Sean’s bisexuality, although I do feel a bit sorry for his wife and children who may be less keen on it being shouted from the rooftops.

    Ruby Whitcombe – Ruby works in Waitrose Brighton. The accompanying photo of Ruby in full fetish gear brandishing a cat o’nine tails was a bit much before breakfast but a ten second google search revealed far more disturbing images of Ruby than I ever wanted or needed to see. Ruby’s Flickr and other social media accounts are definitely not safe for work. I find it odd that no-one in your comms or HR team thought to do some quick on-line checks when this exhibition was being put together. Again, your staff are entitled to a private life but ideally, in a public facing role, it might be a good idea to ask them to keep their accounts private or to use a different name. I think many women will also object to the notion that Ruby now presents as ‘female’ full time. Ruby is not and never will be female.

    Even more disturbing are your trans inclusive policies which mean that should I take my granddaughter or nieces shopping in John Lewis, we may well meet someone like Ruby in the toilets or changing rooms. It means I have to go with them to ensure they are safe. There have been numerous instances and convictions for indecent exposure, voyeurism, secret filming and assault in high street changing rooms. Pornhub and similar sites have thousands of uploaded videos of such events. Your core demographic is middle aged women and yet the privacy, dignity and safety of women and girls seem the very least of your concerns. I am fully supportive of transgender people having safe spaces of their own and gender neutral options are fine, but please not at the expense of single sex facilities.

    Moving on to Identity, the magazine recently shared with partners. James Esses has unpicked much of this and I agree with most of his analysis so I won’t repeat it here. However, I have serious concerns that you are promoting child transitioning and even worse promoting harmful practices such as breast binding. Breast binders are dangerous to girls health causing breathing difficulties, fainting, skin damage, abscesses and irreparable tissue damage. Suggesting to parents that because a little girl doesn’t like girly clothes she is most likely a boy is as dangerous as it is ridiculous. Only a few short years ago you were promoting the idea of gender neutral children’s clothes to avoid the very stereotyping that you now seem to suggest means a child is born in the wrong body. This is my opinion and I appreciate others feel differently but my opinion is supported by the DfE and the Cass Review. Setting children on a path to transition, even just social transition, is not a neutral act and it is grossly irresponsible to normalise it in this way. In addition, promoting a charity like Mermaids, run, until recently, by a woman who had her son castrated in Thailand on his sixteenth birthday, a charity that had what, at best, can be called a paedophile apologist on the board of trustees, a digital engagement officer whose on-line presence made Ruby’s look positively modest by comparison, a charity that encouraged children into unsupervised chat rooms, that was sending out breast binders to children without their parents knowledge and is currently under investigation by the Charity Commission, does not fill me with confidence that you have any clue what you are putting out there.

    You are taking a political stance with this. It is a belief system around trans identity that not everyone shares. Of course, your people are entitled to their views and opinions, but I don’t need to know their views on trans rights any more than I need to know who they vote for. If your stores were full of flags saying Vote Labour you might expect a boycott by Conservative voters or vice versa. This is the same. I don’t want to see progress pride flags everywhere when I’m getting the groceries. If you really want to be inclusive, do more for customers or partners with disabilities. Spend the dosh you are throwing at identity politics on useful adaptations to your stores or employ extra people to help those who need more support.

    I also worry about partners who do not share these views. Are people who believe that sex is based on physical biology, that sometimes we need to segregate people by sex, that maybe getting teenage girls to share changing rooms or dorms with male bodied teenagers isn’t a great idea or who object to putting violent male rapists into women’s prisons – are these women and men welcome to bring their whole selves to work in the John Lewis Partnership? It seems pretty clear from the more recent tweets and messages from your Chair, Sharon White, that this wouldn’t be the case. You might want to consider recent ET rulings regarding Rachel Meade, Prof Jo Phoenix, Denise Fahmy, the Green Party’s Shahrar Ali and of course, Maya Forstater. By pushing this line in all your stores you are in danger of creating a hostile and intimidating environment for those partners with gender critical beliefs.

    So finally, what I would like to say is please just do what you used to do best, good quality stuff at reasonable prices in nice store environments. Get back to your core values and remember how much collective spending power so called ‘terfs’ actually have before your business collapses entirely.

    Regards

    1. Great letter!

    2. Marvellous letter, absolutely nails it.

    3. Perfectly put, I’m saving this for possible future requirements!

    4. Suzanne Wilson avatar
      Suzanne Wilson

      Excellent letter!

  7. brilliant letter 👏.
    thank you!

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